WHEN IT COMES TO YOU,
YOU’RE THE EXPERT

If you become seriously ill, there’s one thing no medical expert can tell you: what matters most to you.

Share this with your doctors, and you become part of a team that will deliver the kind of care that’s right for you.

Share what matters most with those closest to you, and they’ll know how to act on your behalf if you’re unable to.

Below are some tips on asking for what you want from your care, and how we can help.

COVID-19 Update: Be sure to explore conversation and planning resources created specifically for this time.

IT’S OKAY TO HAVE YOUR SAY

If you’re seriously ill, you can start with The Conversation Project’s What Matters to Me Workbook. It helps you think through and talk about what matters most to you - to make sure you get the care you desire. Because open conversations, early and often, are key.

Four WAYS TO SHARE WHAT YOU CARE ABOUT

Pick your person

We all need a trusted partner in our corner, to speak on our behalf when we can’t. Here’s a helpful guide on how to pick a health care proxy.

Write it down

Make it official and put your choices and thoughts in writing. It’s how we can give those we love the guiding principles they need to confidently make decisions for us.

In Massachusetts — this toolkit will walk you through the state’s core health care planning documents
Outside Massachusetts — you’ll find similar resources for all 50 states here
Update us — to share the contact details of the person who will speak on your behalf with Team Blue, call 1-800-392-0098

Talk to your doctor

The more we speak up, the better our care can be. Share with your doctor what matters most and who will speak for you if you can’t. These discussion guides for conversations with your doctor cover every age and stage of health.

Make a plan online

Cake is a free website with resources to help you think through everything from health care choices to estate planning, funerals, legacy, and more.

MAKE COVID-19 PART OF THE CONVERSATION

This COVID-specific guide will help you think through what matters, as well as the care you’ll want, especially if you’re at high risk for coronavirus.

If you’re worried about safety when receiving medical treatment or visiting a hospital, this medical planning tip sheet has practical advice on advance planning, what to pack in your hospital "go bag" and more.

You can also find more information and help at our
Coronavirus Resource Center.